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最诡异的一次k歌

August 27th, 2005 2 comments

昨天晚上被拉去首体钱柜。

绝对是生平最诡异一次k歌。

我们只有6个人,给的包厢却是那种超大的包厢(我想是超大vip吧,搞不懂)。我数了一下,座位就可以坐30多个。

那个房间来个四十人玩是绝对没问题的。

更诡异的是我整晚都只唱了不到5首歌。

而且我居然睡了。还不是睡了一次,睡了两觉。

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对超女的若干观察与思考

August 27th, 2005 4 comments

    一场风风火火的娱乐秀结束了。我发觉我曾经努力将它置于我的生活之外,然而终究还是事与愿违地抵挡不了“时代”的洪流。既然我也被卷进了超女的文化现象,那就姑且说它两句吧。

    不过,事先声明,比赛本身我至今加起来看过的恐怕还不及两个小时。很多观点都是基于我对生活中看到的事情,所以如果你发觉我哪个地方存在客观事实性的错误(注意,不是不同见解,而是事实性错误,如某人是不是gay这种错误),那请告诉我,顺带不必过于和我这个外行计较呵呵。

投票

    我没有支持过谁,然而与很多人情况相似,我的手机就不是如此地中立了。室友是坚定的“凉粉”,因此凡是他认识的人,如果不愿冒恩断义绝的风险,手机都必定贡献了15票。再熟一点的,还要多贡献声讯台的15票。

    他说他如此积极地拉票,是看不惯很多所谓志同道合的凉粉只知道整天在网上吵架不知道拿起手机投票。他极其鄙视这样的人。我可以理解。如果你口口声声支持某一个人,那在超女这个游戏的规则下,你就应当投票。如果你不投票――无论出于何种理由,无论你是自视清高还是根本懒得――而事后你总要在网上唠唠叨叨,那我不得不认为你也是可笑的。我会猜想,你其实并不是支持某个人,而只是喜欢在这场全民皆兵的秀里获得对骂的快感――这种行为也没有错,但自欺欺人地认为自己是真的喜欢某个歌手,那倒有点可笑了。

    不过我还是很同情室友,也说实话挺钦佩他。因为如果你决定了自己的立场,你就应该捍卫自己的立场,否则你就是没有立场。也许在我这个局外人看来,他的行为――与其他fans筹钱给歌手送礼品,自制宣传品,街头拉票――是在浪费时间,但是起码他是言行一致的,这点我尊重。

李宇春

    不折不扣的说,李宇春是一种现象。

    我的女朋友,只看了决赛一场的超女,还是因为支取被室又夺去了手机投票由此引发了兴趣――在她看来我哥们不是那种会为这种事情投入的人。只看了一场,就发短信告诉我她喜欢李宇春,刚拿投了票。

    我问她,喜欢李宇春什么。

    答曰,帅。

    我靠,幸亏我是男的,而李宇春不是。

    或许我也更该庆幸,女友只看了一场超女,这场秀已经落下了帷幕。

    对于李宇春为什么如此有女生缘,今天水木上有这样一篇文章,我觉得总结得比较全面:


发信人: flyingwander (空蝉~~发飚白领玉米), 信区: ChrisLee
标  题: 从欣赏李宇春到分析男人(ZZ)
发信站: 水木社区 (Fri Aug 26 14:42:41 2005), 站内

 女人大多数都非常喜欢、欣赏李宇春,这里面有很复杂的情愫: 

  

 因为她帅气、潇洒、自然、善良、淡定,所以使女人找到了生活中在男人身上已经
很缺乏的优点,所以喜欢他。 

  

 因为她自信、独特、鹤立鸡群、纯洁、可爱,所以使成熟女人想到年轻时候睥睨众
生、顾盼自持的自己。 

  

 因为她独立、无所顾忌、酷、秀气、皮肤好、气质超脱、屏弃性别特征,所以使同
龄的女孩希望自己成为她。 

  

 男人似乎很难理解女人的这种心理。 

  

 很多男人不喜欢李宇春,千万个理由汇聚成一句话:她没有女人特征。 

  

 什么叫女人特征? 打扮得花枝招展?身材前凸后翘?还是小鸟依人?

  

 这就是男人对女人的肤浅理解。 

  

 可见这个世界是多么令人悲哀。因为聪慧而有悟性的女人太多,而无知又肤浅的男
人太多。 

  

 聪慧的女人能够识别优质的女人和优质的男人,而男人只能从性的表象去理解女人
。 

  

 所以大多数女人会从精神的高度去欣赏男人,而大多数男人只能从性的层次去欣赏
女人。 

  

 因此,大多数男人只能被所谓的女色迷了眼睛,甚至被以所谓的女色做外衣的坏女
人骗到倾家荡产、万劫不复。 

  

 这就是男人的愚蠢带来的悲哀。 

  

 我一点都没有诋毁不喜欢李宇春的男人的意思。 

  

 对一个人的喜好与否本来是青菜萝卜各有所爱,这太正常了。对于不喜欢李宇春的
男人,只能说仁者见仁,智者见智。每个人认识事物的角度和契机都不同,凡事不
能强求。 

  

 只是,居然会有那么些个所谓的男人,不喜欢李宇春,并且用极其恶毒而其实非常
自毁的语言去攻击这么一个21岁的纯净得不能再纯净的极品女孩,几几歪歪的理由
居然翻来覆去只是这么一个:她不象个女人。 

  

 佛说:心中是屎,眼里肯定全是屎。 

  

 一个人不能发现美好的事物,本身是一种缺陷,如果还因此张狂,那真是天大的可
怜了。 

  

 好在这个世界上还有不少极其欣赏李宇春的男人,个人以为这样的男人值得令女人
欣赏,因为他们除了有一双慧眼能够真正欣赏女人之外,至少有一颗容纳特例独行
的女人的心。

    虽然上文对于为何李宇春受欢迎总结得不错,也让我比较信服,但上文第四段以后的话,我是郑重地不同意的。如果要争论,大可单写一篇文章,不过我没有这个心情。简而言之,作者自认为女人认识人的高度要比男人高,而男人只懂得拿性的眼光来度量女人,这种观点在我看来实在是可笑之极。

    “一个人不能发现美好的事物,本身是一种缺陷,如果还因此张狂,那真是天大的可怜了。”

    这无疑是作者的气话,然而却暴露了作者的问题:她天真地认为自己看到了别人没有看到的

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关门。

August 25th, 2005 No comments

Blogbus太不稳定了,而水木社区已经可以正常使用。

因此这里暂停营业。

我的主力blog:dani19.mysmth.net

电影blog:dani.allmov.com

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Keep in touch.

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Google: Love it or hate it

August 25th, 2005 No comments

There was an article yesterday on the New York Times, adequately titled Relax, Bill Gates; It’s Google’s Turn as the Villain, which covers the Google phenomenon.

Indeed, Google has already risen from its humble beginnings and transformed into another industry giant. Its reaches are everywhere. From its home base in the search engine, now Google covers vastly different areas of the internet industry. Mail. Desktop. Satellite imaging. And now Instant Messaging.

I’ve come to realize, when something as big as Google comes out, nobody can be left unimpressed. But impressions are mixed―you either loved it, or you gradually learnt to hate it.

People are starting to compare Google with the Microsoft that all of us just love to hate. Indeed, Google has similar aims. Its dream would be a world where nothing can function without it. Just like nearly all computers run on Windows.

Already, I’m beginning to feel the immense influence Google has on me, an average net user. My most preferred mail is Gmail, because it is simple, fast and reliable. Plus it has a cool sounding name. If I want to find anything on my computer, and I do mean anything―from a application to a phrase in a word document, I just type it in Desktop Search, and I don’t have to wait several minutes―not at all like using the search provided with My Computer―I get the results instantly, just as if I’m googling online.

And now with Google Talk (which is all about instant messaging and VOIP) and the new version of Desktop Search, which is really a cover-it-all smartass sidebar―with advanced customized news, blogging, pictures, weather, stocks info―it is starting to feel like Google is rooted down into my PC.

All those features are great, and I love it, but that doesn’t necessarily mean I want everything to be made by Google. People are paranoid, and I’m especially, and I just don’t like the feeling that one company is having so much control on information. Worse, how I access information. If we say that Microsoft controls the way most people use the computer, then suffice to say Google is starting to control the way most people use the internet. And if it hasn’t done so already, no doubt that’s what it’s planning to do.

With all that said, I guess I’m still on the Google lovers’ side. It’s a kickass company, and I love the way they feel they can do anything―and they are indeed doing everything. That bold spirit is something I really admire. Still, I am getting a little uneasy with how far their spirit has carried them…

 

And here’s New York Times coverage of Google’s two new software releases:

Google gets better. What’s up with that?

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Google Talk

August 25th, 2005 1 comment

Google Talk is yet another instant messaging software. As if we didn’t have enough already.

It’s main emphasis appears to be on simplicity. Like MSN, the accounts are based on email addresses, in this case, Google’s own Gmail. Kinda like a privileged right for Gmail users. If you aren’t one already…

As the name suggests, Google Talk focuses on talking. You can “call” up your friends. And if they pick up, you immediately engage in voice chat. Of course, you can still do it the classic way, sending instant messaging.

Additionally, Google Talk includes the features of the Gmail Notifier, so when you install it, it will prompt you whether you want to uninstall Notifier. Which I promptly did.

Chatting via Google Talk is simple. You won’t get the sophisticated features of QQ. I don’t know if chat messages are stored.

All in all, I didn’t find anything especially fancy about Google Talk. But I guess it will slowly gather its own following, since it is especially made for Gmail users. And most Gmail users consider themselves to be cool guys, huhWe want our own IM software.

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By request, Issue 6

August 24th, 2005 1 comment

Hope this helps you dear. 587 words, written in half an hour, very rough.


Issue 6. The most effective way to understand contemporary culture is to analyze the trends of its youth.

In my view, contemporary culture is most distinctively shown in the trends of its youth. Therefore, it would be an effective and necessary way to understand contemporary culture through the study of the youth. However, to fully comprehend all aspects of contemporary culture, one must dig further and investigate more into other areas of related interest.

Contemporary culture, by definition, could be interpreted as the culture of the modern society. And in any society, it is always the young generation that is at the forefront of the culture, leading the fashion and setting the trends. They not only represent the most advanced sections of the culture, but also play a crucial role in defining contemporary culture, shaping it to their tastes and advancing it. For example, in the 60s and 70s of the US, in the great social change that was brought about by the anti-war movements, the sex revolution and the rock and roll phenomenon, it was the young people who were leading these changes and drastically changing the values of society. What they did may seem radical and extreme at the time, but in hindsight, we can find that their efforts were perhaps one of the most important elements in bringing about what we now consider contemporary culture. Therefore, to understand contemporary culture, it would be mandatory to investigate the behaviors and actions of the young generation. Their tastes and trends constantly shape contemporary culture as we know it.

Yet I believe it is not enough to only emphasize focus on the trends of the youth. Indeed, society is formed by all age groups, and it would be prudent to say contemporary culture is formed by all parties of society. Politicians, the media, and certain other groups with influential power, sometimes play especially important roles in the trends of culture. One example that immediately jumps to mind would be the Cultural Revolution of China in the 60s and 70s. This is a movement that was brought about by the leaders of the state, and it brought about huge social change, redefining China’s contemporary culture with vast differences. To understand this change in culture, it is crucial to analyze the actions of the government during this period. Likewise, the media often has huge influence on the mass public, leading us in the direction it chooses. Thus they also contribute to defining culture, and therefore were one to study culture, an analysis of the media would also be greatly helpful.

In addition, perhaps it would be imprudent to simply categorize the different parties of society and analyze each party’s contribution to contemporary culture. Society is a mass web of interaction among all its constituents, and the results and effects of these interactions―the effect the youth has on the politicians, the effect the media has on the youth and vice versa―should never be underestimated. Perhaps it would be an effort in vain to try to seek who is ultimately responsible for the change in culture―instead contemporary culture should be viewed as the combined result of the dynamic interactions that take place in society, and therefore, to understand it, we must always study all elements of society.

In conclusion, while I do believe that an analysis of the trends of the youth is crucial towards understanding contemporary culture, it is nonetheless far from enough. All aspects of society must be investigated to form the true understanding of culture.

 

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On Gay…

August 24th, 2005 4 comments

http://spaces.msn.com/members/floraflorayu/Blog/cns!1pXYjD0eImeice8g-YkU_PvA!354.entry

Flora just talked about her opinion on the gay issue. I find it interesting that she is so fascinated by this issue, apparently.

Anyway, I am an outsider to the problem. I am not interested in gay stuff, nor do I know any real gay persons. (Hmmm… come to think of it…?) And without any deep religious beliefs, I don’t have a big problem with gays, I guess.
However, I do understand why "gay" is considered so offensive to some people. I read a really long article by the New York Times a few months back, in which a long narrative of anti-gay beliefs and gay beliefs is given.
To make a long story short, the fundamental problem, at least in the US it seems, is the clash between gay and religion. To some strict people with serious faith in Catholicism (or some other form of religion), gay behavior acts against their very own roots of belief. They find it offensive.
And here’s the dilemma, at least in my opinion. People have religious freedom, which means we should respect their religious beliefs. On the other hand, in terms of civil rights, we should also respect people’s choice of sexual preference. Yet these two are contradicting. We cannot easily satisfy both.
Religion is a serious matter. If people believe that God defined marriage as between man and woman, then it is not easy to tell these people that gay people can get married. That’s like telling them God is wrong. Of course this is a hasty generalization of the gay problem in its clash with religion.
The real matter lies in the definition of marriage. What is marriage all about? If one believes marriage is about procreation, then definitely one would oppose gay marriage. Yet everyone views marriage differently. And even though we’re in the 21st century, we should never easily neglect the deep social roots where marriage itself originated.
Gay marriage is a serious issue. Perhaps, jokingly, it may be easier to implement in China, since serious religious belief is nearly nonexistent. (Not quite, of course, but I guess it’s prudent to say the majority are not serious followers of any religion.) However, from a worldwide perspective, I think it’s going to take a long time and a long war. Remember, the anti-gay are not just defending their turf, they are attacking too.
Not that I’m in favor of gay marriage…

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Has everyone gone mad?

August 24th, 2005 No comments

Seems like I’m from Mars.

This Supergirl thing. Suddenly it has invaded the privacy of my dorm.

WTF, my roomie is getting every mobile he can lay his hands on and voting…

And they actually collect money to buy gifts…

What’s so good about it anyway?

And so damn long…

I’ve watched half an episode of this thing, and I am not really impressed. Too cheesy, IMO. And far too commercialized.

This joke has gone on for far too long.

What’s all the fuss about.

Still, it’s an interesting phenomenon.

People are really willing to spend time and money on useless things. People are so irrational. It seems we have this innate need to satisfy our irrationalism.

I could possibly think of 1 million better things to do with 20 RMB, as opposed to donating it to a girl who sings on TV every week.

Still, it’s a free country. Do what you want. I am gonna stay out of it, though.

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And dani hits 30000…

August 24th, 2005 2 comments

Con to myself.

Took me a long time, though.

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来一篇中文的,写给你。

August 24th, 2005 2 comments

随手翻了翻自己blog。发觉自己很自恋。

发觉自己一个月都没有中文的东西了。

发觉自己已经很懒了,OVAL都已经结束两周了,日记还没有整理完。

也发觉,根本没有什么写给你的东西。

你抱怨我说我写给你看的东西少。

其实我是想把你藏起来,你的好,只有我知道。

若不是之前连着写了两篇,而此时的夜正静的出奇――或许我又会偷懒了。

你这时正睡熟了吧。

心底里似乎又有了很多话。你似乎总想猜透我的心思,呵,我倒要告诉你,其实我直白的很。

你说你每天都很想我,我又何尝不是如此?只不过,我心里隐约更期待着这种情感平静下来。

你是我心灵的港湾。当我的心累了,总可以藏入你的怀抱。

自然地,你已经成为了我生活的一部分。从来没有想过,也觉得不必去设想,没有你的生活。

这种感觉很美妙。确定无疑地,你总在那里,我需要你的时候。

而且,我们可以平等的交流。我发觉我总是辨不过你,你的逻辑总比我清晰,看问题总比我深入。唉让我汗颜。

你其实不用太在意和别的女生比较。我就喜欢你这样子。不用模仿你觉得比你更出色的女生。呵,我可不觉得她们有什么特别的。

而且你的性格实在是讨我喜欢。恰到好处。

如何描述我对你的着迷程度呢?嗯,我最喜欢做的事情,就是和你在一起,呆着,什么都不做,浪费时间。

不过这样太颓废啦。

希望没吵醒你。你应该感觉到我想你了吧。

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